Explain this to me

Stupid people do stupid things. Or is it desperate people do silly things. Either way I am not sure but glad to live a life with morals and decency

I know this person who is in the process of divorcing her husband. I always assumed it was her who had an affair. But it was her husband who had one and kicked her out of the house one day and she left everything behind. He then claimed to have sold her stuff for pennies and she was left with little.

She takes her kids and moves on. Moves away for a little and then heads back to NY life and gets a good job. She gets a lawyer and does all the work to go for a separation and move forward with a divorce.

Along the way she meets a guy. Dates him for a while and really likes him. She does NOT move in with him shocking as it may seem, but does go on vacation with him and to see his family over seas and leaves her kids behind. Sure, it is normal for her lifestyle. Somewhere along the way even with much aggravation with her divorce issues she does something silly and what I call stupid. She gets pregnant.

Yes, a grown woman with kids who is divorcing her husband who is NOT divorced goes ahead and gets herself pregnant. I am still trying to digest this. Well I guess her husband (he is not her ex yet) figured it out first, because not that long ago, he became a proud new Papa to a women he will NOT marry.

So to let you understand this real life true story. Two people are married. They get into a fight and move on with life without each other. They share kids and fight for custody and divorce. Along the way he meets a new girl. He then gets the girl pregnant and has a baby. She meets a new man. Gets pregnant by that. Mind you the first couple are still married to each other, but have chosen to have a kid with someone else. That would make the baby a what??

Thank God they are not part of my religion.

It disgusts me to think people are so careless with this whole marriage thing. Like why do they need to be married to have a baby? Or, why bother living with the baby’s other parent. It is so much better to bring up the kid alone, or explain why Daddy lives elsewhere.

Some things I will never fully understand.